Come what may

The lesson in Relief Society this week was about overcoming adversity. It reminded me a lot of my mom's oldest brother Randy, who was born quadriplegic. He was an amazing example of overcoming trials. When he was little his brothers and sisters would pull him around in a little red wagon. One day the siblings were swimming in the ditch in the backyard. Randy was able to participate by having someone cut piece of a hose off that he held in his mouth to breathe under water. Unfortunately, the rest of the siblings became distracted by another activity and left him in the water for several hours until they remembered that they had left him behind. He didn't let his physical problems hold him back. Randy was able to go to college despite his teachers' reservations. He was able to write by placing a pencil in his mouth. He succeeded at the goals that he set for himself, despite people not believing in him. Another of his dreams was to some day be able to drive a car. Without having the use of arms and legs it sounded impossible. He persisted, and was able to get someone to design a car that would allow him the operate it using his neck, as well as the little movement that he had in his toes. He was quick to get his first speeding ticket as he explored his new found freedom. The family was also able to create a way for Randy to be able to shoot. They tied a string around the gun's trigger and placed it in his mouth. He lost a battle with cancer and left behind a wife and son. He was able to live life to the fullest and appreciated what he was given. Although most of us have bodies perfect in function, we do have our own personal struggles. Often it is hard to look on the bright side, and to find the strength to endure. It is a great comfort to know that the things that we struggle with in this life will be made whole in the next, and that one day we will all be made perfect.